I am dating a man going through a divorce latest onlline dating
You have no idea if these people liked his ex or couldn’t stand her, but you don’t want to be compared to her. Now, let’s assume his kids adore you and everything is going great. In fact, the better you get along with everyone else, the more likely the ex is to hate you for it.
There may come a point when you have to stand your ground.
My point is, you will be the enemy for a good long while, so enjoy NOT meeting the kids for as long as possible.
Speaking of kids, it’s important not to try too hard when you meet his children.
There’s no need to bring toys and shower them with gifts and over attention. If you’re trying too hard, they’ll know you’re afraid that they will dislike you and ruin your chances with their father.
You can’t imagine his ex-wife as the bitchy, nagging psychopath either.
So, aside from being the “bigger man” in the situation, and in spite of any feelings your guy might have towards his ex, you have to be cool so she isn’t interfering with your relationship (and yes, even unknowingly being talked about behind her back is a form of inadvertently interfering in your relationship).
The best advice I can give you when dating a divorced dad is to wait a while before meeting his kids.
Perhaps his ex is trying to tell you who’s boss in HIS house, maybe she’s trying to talk badly about him, or butting into your relationship.
While I did suggest you not talk badly about her to your guy, I never said you couldn’t give this woman a piece of your mind!