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She realizes she made mistakes with these men in the past, and when I felt we were headed toward marriage, I asked her to remove any semblance of past relationships physically and from her heart – for my sake.She has fought me on every side on this issue for years.She even stayed out till 4am once, where he was involved.She had another friend, with whom she had been sexually active, and wanted me to allow them to remain friends too.EDITOR' S NOTE: He Said-She Said is a biweekly advice column for singles featuring a question from a reader with responses from a male and female point of view.If you've got a question about anything related to singleness or living the single life, please submit it to [email protected] (selected questions will be posted anonymously).It could remind both of us of a past that, in my opinion should be forgotten. HE SAID: If you’re looking for a biblical stance to corroborate your feelings that your girlfriend should not retain any past friendships with ex-lovers and friends, I can’t supply you with one.SEE ALSO: Am I Pursuing Education at the Cost of Love? However, we can discern a general intent of biblical principles which speaks to your situation. SEE ALSO: He Said She Said: Should I Settle for Less?
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The pictures would not be a threat but instead a reminder of how God has changed us.
But the fact that she still showcases them, talks and hangs out with these men, tells me she has not really moved from her past into the present (or future) with you.
I love this scripture where Paul talks about moving forward in his own walk because he too had a past filled with sin, poor choices and separation from God. We should want to move forward towards the goals God has for us including relationships. Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it.
But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus Cliff Young, a contributing writer and a veteran single of many decades.
QUESTION: Biblically speaking, is it ever ok to be friends with ex-lovers, or keep gifts, mementos, or pictures from past non-marital relationships, if you're headed toward marriage with another person?